Zach Rawlings, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist

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Recognizing the Signs of Suicide

Suicide remains a critical public health issue in the United States. In 2023, approximately 49,300 individuals died by suicide, a slight decrease from the 49,500 cases reported in 2022. This positions suicide as the 11th leading cause of death nationwide. Notably, firearms were involved in 55% of these cases.

Recognizing the Signs of Suicide

Understanding and identifying the warning signs of suicide can be pivotal in prevention efforts. Common indicators include:

  • Previous suicide attempts: A history of attempts significantly increases the risk.

  • Verbal expressions: Statements like "I wish I were dead" or "Life doesn't matter anymore."

  • Behavioral changes: Increased risk-taking or withdrawal from social interactions.

  • Personal affairs: Giving away prized possessions.

  • Substance use: Escalation in alcohol or drug consumption.

  • Social isolation: Distancing from friends and family.

  • Diminished interest: Loss of enthusiasm for previously enjoyed activities.

  • Self-harm: Engaging in behaviors like cutting or burning oneself.

  • Neglecting self-care: Disregard for personal hygiene or appearance.

  • Appetite or weight fluctuations: Significant changes in eating habits or body weight.

It's essential to approach these signs with empathy and concern. Engaging in open conversations about mental health can make a profound difference.

How to Intervene When You Suspect Someone is Suicidal

If you observe these warning signs, consider the following steps:

  1. Ask Directly

Initiate a candid conversation about their feelings. Research indicates that discussing suicide openly does not increase the risk; instead, it can provide relief and a pathway to seek help.

Examples:

    • "I've noticed you've been going through a tough time. Are you thinking about ending your life?"

    • "Some of your recent comments have me worried. Are you considering suicide?"

  1. Explore Their Feelings

Encourage them to share their reasons for both wanting to die and to live. Listening without judgment can help them feel understood and less isolated.

A helpful question might be: "Do you want to end your life, or do you wish to stop the pain you're experiencing?"

  1. Remove Access to Means

If they have a specific plan, assist in limiting access to the intended method. For instance, if they mention using firearms, ensure they are stored securely or temporarily removed from the home.

  1. Provide Resources

Connect them with professional support. In the U.S., the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline offers 24/7 confidential assistance. Individuals can call or text 988 to reach trained counselors.

Additional resources include:

    • National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): Offers comprehensive information on suicide prevention and mental health support.

    • Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): Provides resources and support for those struggling with mental health and substance use issues.

After these initial steps, it's crucial to involve mental health professionals for ongoing support and intervention.

Being Present Matters

Your presence and willingness to engage can be life-saving. Regularly check in with loved ones, especially those who exhibit signs of distress. Simple acts of kindness, active listening, and expressing genuine concern can make a significant impact.

Remember, fostering open dialogues about mental health and suicide reduces stigma and encourages those in need to seek help.